Show your girl the time of her life Sultry Secrets - Foreplay 101 - 5 Top Tips To Show Your Girl The Time Of Her Life!

Foreplay 101 – 5 Top Tips To Show Your Girl The Time Of Her Life!

Many of life’s most enjoyable activities require you to work quickly. A game of Boggle, for instance, or eating a 99 in the heat of summer. Sex is certainly an enjoyable activity; it's up there with board games and ice cream in my books. But good sex isn’t about sprinting to the finish line. Taking the time to engage in electrifying foreplay is crucial if you want to knock your partner’s socks off. Here are 5 tried-and-tested foreplay moves that your lucky lady is bound to love.1. Undress Her This is a classic foreplay act and it’s a great one to pull out of the bag if you’ve been in a relationship for a while. In the beginning, you were tearing each other’s clothes off, but now that you’ve been together for some time, you probably just take off your...

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How to Feel Great and Talk Dirty

What's sexier than knowing what you want in bed? Openly and enthusiastically asking for it, of course!Wanting to be more vocal is one thing, but stage fright, insecurities and a fear of feeling silly can easily get in the way – not to mention not knowing what your partner's reaction will be. There's every reason to try talking dirty though – especially as the sexy phrases you moan, murmur and scream have been scientifically proven to trigger a reaction in the brain that make your partner feel even more aroused. And while we're not suggesting you turn the air bright blue from the get-go, dirty talk is definitely something you can master with a little bit of practice. Welcome to the dirty talk masterclass...1. Talk before you... talk Talking openly with your partner is a great way to ease...

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show your man the time of his life Sultry Secrets - Foreplay 101 - 5 Top Tips To Show Your Man The Time Of His Life!

Foreplay 101 – 5 Top Tips To Show Your Man The Time Of His Life!

If your significant other is the proud owner of a penis, it can be tempting to make foreplay all about oral sex – and it's easy to see why. Blow jobs are fantastic. They are a huge turn-on for loads of men and after a sensational blow job, there's a good chance that any penetrative sex will last even longer and be more satisfying for both of you. But man can not live on blow-jobs alone! Well, you could give it a damn good try, but just like anything you do all the time, it might get a little... samey. Here are 5 other foreplay moves that are sure to drive him wild.1. Shake Up Your Routine How does sex usually unfold when you’re together? If you’ve fallen into a pattern lately, take charge and switch things up. If you...

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How to Give an Erotic Massage to Your Lover

Foreplay doesn’t just have to be a kiss and a cuddle within the confines of the bedroom. In fact, erotic massage  is the perfect way to connect physically and emotionally. A massage can be a simple stroking of the hands or a good going-over of the whole body. Whatever you decide to do, you’ll soon realise the benefits to your heath, your body, your relationship and your sex life.Erotic Massage: Setting the Mood  To help set the mood you might like to start by making the room you want to do the massage in warm - your partner will probably be naked or at least semi-naked so to stop shivers, turn up the heat. You’ll also want to dim the lights or light some candles. Harsh lighting can be an uncomfortable distraction during massage, so bring in a little bit of...

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The Best Fantasy Role Play Ideas!

Have you ever felt like your sex life could do with a bit of a jumpstart? It's very natural in relationship to fall into the same routine night after night, day after day, but luckily there are plenty of ways of spicing up your fun with minimal effort. Sexy role play is a wonderful way to get out of a rut in the bedroom, and it's a great opportunity to try some new moves and techniques you may have been too shy to broach otherwise. Putting on a sexy costume helps you step out of your own shoes and into another character, with a new set of personality traits and fantasies. In fact, in our recent Forbidden Fantasies survey, 59% of women said they were turned on by the idea of role play. Don't know where to begin...

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Tips for Writing Erotic Fiction

Have you ever had a thought about writing your own erotic stories? Or maybe some sort of memoirs? Then you are not alone.Loads of people feel very awkward about sharing their writing – and thats understandably so, especially if you've ever read a comment section anywhere on the internet. It's scary to put yourself out into the wild. But it can also be a massive turn-on, and ultimately rewarding. Even if your audience is just yourself and a partner, erotic fiction/non-fiction writing is a great way to explore your most fantasies. Writing can and will relieve stress, mostly when you're doing it for fun, it can be a welcome break from academic assignments. If you've ever even thought about putting pen to paper, or fingers to keyboard as it's now more often known (though it does sound rather...

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How To Flirt Sultry Secrets - The Art of Flirting

The Art of Flirting

The world of modern dating can be fun, exciting and exhausting. With so many dating apps available at our fingertips, there’s now a plethora of potential partners to choose from and many of us have swiped so much we’ve ended up with finger cramp. Finding a new boyfriend or girlfriend is no mean feat! Since hit the scene in the mid-90s, technology has radically changed the way we find love. Meeting someone off the internet has now become the norm for us singletons (at the agast of our parents). According to the BBC, dating apps were big business in 2017, with Tinder recording 57 million active monthly users. And with other popular apps like Badoo, Happn, Plenty of Fish and Grindr also boasting monthly users into the millions, it looks like we’ve become a nation that’s more comfortable with...

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11 Things Most People Have Thought During Sex

Sex is an amazing thing, like a gorgeous night sky. Full of beauty, infinite possibilities and the... ermm what the heck is that? We have all been there. On the road to pleasure town, via puzzled with a pit stop in preoccupied. Mainly focusing on being relaxed and what is turning you on in the moment is the key to satisfying sex. By practising being a lot more present in each moment of daily life, you'll find it a great deal easier to be in the moment during your special lovemaking. With everything that's going on in your busy life, it's understandable though that sometimes your mind takes a detour. Don't fret about it. Read on for a list of things that almost everyone has thought of during sex.  1. "Hooray I'm having sex." You sure are. Go you!2. "Are they enjoying this?" If...

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Maternity Sex Advice

Pregnancy can be an odd time – your body’s changing, hormones are shooting everywhere and you’re always completely knackered. But, you’re still you, and you can still enjoy sex as much as you used to before you fell pregnant – you may just have to... you know... mix it up a bit! As an expectant mother, you’re obviously going to have a few questions about maternity sex and the way you and your partner get it on might change throughout the nine month period. It’s the great time to find new, fun and exciting ways to explore each other and increase intimacy, whether you actually decide to have sex or not. Sultry Secrets is here to give you some top tips on having the perfect sex during your pregnancy, but first, we’ll answer some most common questions...

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Single and Ready to Mingle?

Every song you hear on Spotify or Itunes. The large catalogue of romantic flix on Netflix. The insane amount of wedding pictures on Instagram… it seems like no matter where you try to look, everyone is in couple and talking about them. Relationships seem to be endlessly celebrated like they’re some kind of life-affirming achievement, leaving the majority of us who are single in a permanent state of confusion. Of course, relationships can be great, but really, so can being single. It’s 2018, and a massive 52% of us in England and Wales are single. Not only are fewer young adults married than there were a decade ago, but fewer young people are in committed relationships. We think this is something to be celebrated! Delaying committed relationships, marriage and starting a family until later in life allows more...

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